- 28.02.2026
The art of dealing with people: Your comprehensive guide to mastering social intelligence and winning hearts
The golden rules of the art of dealing: When Islamic ethics meets psychology The first rule: "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." From a legal and psychological perspective, this rule is the cornerstone of any healthy human relationship. From a Sharia perspective, the Prophet (peace be upon him) says: "None of you believes until you love your brother as you love yourself." This is a clear directive to be unselfish and to put yourself in the other person's shoes. The application of this rule does not only mean stopping harm, but also initiating acts of kindness. Psychologically, this is called Reciprocity; humans have an innate tendency to reciprocate behavior. If you start with respect, you'll get respect, and if you start with disregard, you'll get disregard. The secret lies in goodwill; people have an emotional "radar" that senses whether your kindness comes from a sincere heart or is just flattery for the sake of flattery, and only sincere dealings are long-lasting. Emotional intelligence in dealing: You can't successfully manage your relationships with others unless you are able to manage yourself. Emotional intelligence starts with self-awareness; that is, knowing your weaknesses, what makes you angry, and how to control your reactions before you say something you will regret. It is very important to distinguish between two concepts that many people confuse: "courtesy" (or social hypocrisy) and "politeness". The vilified courtesy [...]
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